There is a lot going on in our days, and we tend to put so much pressure in being better, doing things better, making a big difference, and more. This is something I often do, and then when all is said and done and I go to bed at night, oftentimes there is uneasiness. And then I go back to the fundamentals… I ask myself a few questions, which sometimes are harder to answer than others:
- Is what I’m doing something that makes me happy?
- Do the things that keep me “busy” matter to me?
- Am I making progress in the areas I care for?
- Will I be able to make better contributions to society through what I am doing or the skills I’m learning?
Sometimes the answer for some of these questions is… “uhmmm… maybe?” and that can be acceptable, but at least asking myself these questions helps me evaluate the true meaning of what is keeping me busy. Sometimes I am busy and flustered by things, and at the end of the day I realize… none of the things that kept me so busy truly mattered or made a different in my life, my happiness level.
“Doing nothing is better than being busy doing nothing”
– Lao Tzu