Common reward systems, and society in general, teach us to admire results, not necessarily habits and behavior.  Although this works fairly OK sometimes, pushing everyone to give more and more good results, there is a huge problem behind this system — excellent results can hide a story of many bad decisions and behaviors.
Think about a [...]

I have one really important tip about unsolicited advice, don’t give it.  Unless you are in a company setting and are managing someone else, or have some sort of responsibility over someone (parent, tutor, teacher), there is no reason why you should be giving any sort of unsolicited advice.
To offer a man unsolicited advice is [...]

Do you want to make a great impact in society?  Shake things up in a way that everyone can talk about and admire?  Sort of like Mother Teresa, or Oprah?  (Side note: Why do I keep mentioning Oprah?  I need to chill on the Oprah love.)  The point is, many of us want to be one [...]