Comments on: Don’t Blame, Fix the Problem http://omareduardo.com/2010/03/10/focusing-on-the-solution-not-on-blaming/ Improve yourself. Tue, 03 Aug 2010 06:32:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Omar Eduardo Fernández http://omareduardo.com/2010/03/10/focusing-on-the-solution-not-on-blaming/comment-page-1/#comment-694 Omar Eduardo Fernández Tue, 04 May 2010 04:41:25 +0000 http://omareduardo.com/?p=1087#comment-694 Thank you, Yasar. I'm very very glad that you enjoyed it and took some of your time to comment on this post. Have a wonderful day! Thank you, Yasar. I'm very very glad that you enjoyed it and took some of your time to comment on this post. Have a wonderful day!

]]> By: Yasar Shahzad http://omareduardo.com/2010/03/10/focusing-on-the-solution-not-on-blaming/comment-page-1/#comment-693 Yasar Shahzad Sun, 02 May 2010 14:36:54 +0000 http://omareduardo.com/?p=1087#comment-693 Great post.. Great post..

]]> By: Omar Eduardo Fernández http://omareduardo.com/2010/03/10/focusing-on-the-solution-not-on-blaming/comment-page-1/#comment-687 Omar Eduardo Fernández Sat, 20 Mar 2010 00:35:50 +0000 http://omareduardo.com/?p=1087#comment-687 Rather than having you apologize, I want to thank you for sharing your insight! You're very kind of share your knowledge. I am happy to have you around and I hope to see you comment again sometime soon. <br><br>Take care. :) Rather than having you apologize, I want to thank you for sharing your insight! You're very kind of share your knowledge. I am happy to have you around and I hope to see you comment again sometime soon.

Take care. :)

]]> By: mpoepsel http://omareduardo.com/2010/03/10/focusing-on-the-solution-not-on-blaming/comment-page-1/#comment-686 mpoepsel Tue, 16 Mar 2010 04:00:25 +0000 http://omareduardo.com/?p=1087#comment-686 Fantastic post, Omar! You've hit on two really important themes from the Positive Psychology literature. The first is a personality construct relating to the perceived locus of responsibility and control. There is evidence that successful people believe they are responsible for the circumstances of their lives - as you say, "no blame". The second relates to having a solution-focus or your "fix the problem". Again, there is evidence that reframing problems as solutions can yield success. Setting goals and focusing on solutions leads to conscious (and subconscious) development of task-strategies.<br><br>(Sorry to nerd up your blog, but I've been doing a ton of research for my Online Coaching dissertation!)<br><br>I really enjoyed your post, and I'll be signing up for future updates. Fantastic post, Omar! You've hit on two really important themes from the Positive Psychology literature. The first is a personality construct relating to the perceived locus of responsibility and control. There is evidence that successful people believe they are responsible for the circumstances of their lives – as you say, “no blame”. The second relates to having a solution-focus or your “fix the problem”. Again, there is evidence that reframing problems as solutions can yield success. Setting goals and focusing on solutions leads to conscious (and subconscious) development of task-strategies.

(Sorry to nerd up your blog, but I've been doing a ton of research for my Online Coaching dissertation!)

I really enjoyed your post, and I'll be signing up for future updates.

]]> By: Omar Eduardo Fernández http://omareduardo.com/2010/03/10/focusing-on-the-solution-not-on-blaming/comment-page-1/#comment-685 Omar Eduardo Fernández Sun, 14 Mar 2010 09:16:00 +0000 http://omareduardo.com/?p=1087#comment-685 Thank you, Roia. I also feel that it's sometimes easy to get caught up in non-productive and sometimes harmful thoughts. I'm glad you liked the post. :) Thank you, Roia. I also feel that it's sometimes easy to get caught up in non-productive and sometimes harmful thoughts. I'm glad you liked the post. :)

]]> By: Roia http://omareduardo.com/2010/03/10/focusing-on-the-solution-not-on-blaming/comment-page-1/#comment-684 Roia Fri, 12 Mar 2010 21:20:56 +0000 http://omareduardo.com/?p=1087#comment-684 Very good point indeed, Omar. Thanks for pointing it out. It is often frustrating to be caught in the drama of whose fault some problem is (not that I don't find myself in that position on an uncomfortably regular basis, mind you). Way more productive to find a solution and move along. Very good point indeed, Omar. Thanks for pointing it out. It is often frustrating to be caught in the drama of whose fault some problem is (not that I don't find myself in that position on an uncomfortably regular basis, mind you). Way more productive to find a solution and move along.

]]> By: Can’t be bothered to be offended http://omareduardo.com/2010/03/10/focusing-on-the-solution-not-on-blaming/comment-page-1/#comment-683 Can’t be bothered to be offended Wed, 10 Mar 2010 15:30:19 +0000 http://omareduardo.com/?p=1087#comment-683 [...] if you were so focused on building solutions that you didn’t have time to get hung up on being angry about the [...] [...] if you were so focused on building solutions that you didn’t have time to get hung up on being angry about the [...]

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